Sunday, March 22, 2015

Life is Crazy

Sometimes you just need your own wash basket!



And cleaning out grandma's cupboards is great fun.
I'm hoping this week is a bit more relaxed, last week I over-scheduled and left people down, so I'm hoping this week is better. 
Two weeks ago, I received an e-mail from a lady who wanted to order a quilt for her 83 y.o. grandfather. She needs it to fit on his hospital bed and really other than the size she know that she wants it in the color of blue. AND to help ease my mind (not really) she doesn't want to see pictures of the quilt in progress, she wants a surprise.
Oh, and since he is 83 and just coming home from the hospital....I think I'll work on that this week.

I only plan to teach ONE   CPR class instead of four- what's with that anyway? Why all the classes suddenly....ah well, keeps me out of trouble.



Science Fair project is finished...did you know that ...

these interesting designs are made with sound and water...called cymatics 
not sure  where the pictures are of the salt and sound.




Then...on the day Spring began! we were blessed  with more snow!
The picture is from Saturday afternoon...in the morning our drive was completely covered.
Thankfully even though the township opted NOT to salt the bridges or anything for that matter...Ezekiel and I made it to our destinations without actually hitting anything.


QOTD:  Joe to Zeke: " So why were you taking sermon notes in that weird hieroglyphics?"
Ben: "yeah, you still use that? Is it a 26 letter alphabet?"
Zeke:" No, now it is....32 I think...5 'O's' and then one for that sound the Scots make in the word loch...or like the the Dutchmen make when they say 'ach'.... just in case. 
Ben: " I dare you to hand in your physics homework written in that script" 

Sunday, March 8, 2015

So Why? or What?

Did you ever wonder what God is thinking?
Like why does he take one family's young-very-much-needed father?
Why do some families seem to get hit with one thing after another...you know, illness, surgeries, things over which we really have no control.

We stand on the outside and look for the bright spots

"Well it could have been worse."

"At least _______didn't happen."

Then our minds go to...."maybe God is trying to tell them something."

We studied Job in Sunday School recently and Job's friends came to that conclusion too.

God wasn't impressed with their ideas.

Then my mind goes to something else....Job's friends were miserable comforters...

Do you think God is ever testing friends...churches... communities

Yeah, everyone rallies around during the first illness and maybe the second calamity

but what about the next time and the next?

What about people who live every day with high needs individuals?

Do we give them breaks?


Ouch, just stepped on my own toes here.

And just some snow pictures to enjoy....I would be happy to share some with those of you who don't have enough.




Monday, March 2, 2015

Now Let's Analyze

So if anyone was watching Ray and I on Sunday morning, I want to explain
why we were shaking with laughter... Missy Shekinah was drawing.
First she gave me #4 "it's for you mama." Ok how sweet! but more than
that...
this person has a body, hips and all extremities

Then she quickly drew # 1 and 2, this is where we lost it

#1 is daddy singing

#2 is mama jumping (but later she said I was singing too and that was a
hat on my head)

#3 anyone want to guess?

Why it's a caterpillar of course! complete with a chin!


We will have to work on drawing hair and those teeth need a dentist

Sunday, March 1, 2015

Birthdays, and Growing Up

The growing up would be this guy, who just swiftly crawled up on the kitchen table this past week. He doesn't even walk most of the time! (He can walk, just thinks it's a bit slow.)

Shekinah thought he was funny...then I looked at the back drop of my lovely children...

Put them down for a nap and cleaned up my kitchen sink.
It's as good as it gets folks.

Then we had a birthday in this house.
He wanted sticky buns "with that good icing on" (he means buttercream with real butter)
I had seen a neat "cake" on Facebook where they used Nut*lla for the spread between the layers
and decided that you probably could do the same thing with the sticky bun recipe...
and you can!


The other thing he wanted was that expensive that he had to combine Christmas and birthday gifts into one....and add a bit of his own (young parents..it is a good idea for them to have to invest something into big ticket items like this)  ---that's your free advice for the day--
and no, he is not allowed to use the wi-fi unless he is supervised....old meanies we are.

I heard familiar music and realized that Faith is playing one of Zeke's old favorite games.
It should help her learn some logic....as long as she doesn't get too much help from the big kids.


Last weekend we visited with the family from OH whose son Tyler had external fixators on both legs. The feedback we got from the children was interesting. Tyler confided in his mom, "mom, that little girl doesn't have many fingers."
Mom: "Are you glad you have your fingers, even if they don't all work properly?"
His mother told me that he had been having quite a problem lately with the idea that he was going to need to be on a wheel chair for some time and was very sure there wasn't a child ANYWHERE as bad off as he was. Then he met my two children and suddenly felt that he didn't have quite as many problems...
THEN:
My children...
Shekinah: "mom that boy , why doesn't he have elbows that bend?"
Me: "Well, that's how God made HIM."
Shekinah: "Well I'm glad God gave me elbows."

A bit of background on this ...Shekinah has been talking about her hands quite a bit lately and wishing she had more fingers...."or hands like your's mom." She usually comes to the acceptance "God made me this way, right mom?" So to hear her reason this through was interesting.
I mentioned the fixators to Joseph and said, "I looked at those pins and were glad they didn't live in my house. How about you Joseph?"
Joe:" Well his pins weren't as big as mine and they didn't go through the bone like mine, but yeah I'm glad I don't have to do that again."
I realized that the trauma of the ex-fix apparently affected his memory, but we'll let him go.

Have a good week! Rumor has it that the temps might hit the 50's, but as DH said "I'll believe it when I see it."



Sunday, February 22, 2015

Mennonite Chinese New Year Party

It still involves food

fancy clothes, 
but just fewer people
and in this case people from further away.
We skipped the dragon and the bubble wrap in favor of lots of talking 
and discussing wheel chairs and external fixators.

So glad to meet Tyler and Rachelle tonite
Mr Gabe went home early and I didn't get a picture

Saturday, February 21, 2015

Keeping Warm

 Keeping people warm and well-fed is a daily challenge.
Ben works outside/inside he never knows, but mostly he is in the cold.
When the weather was first getting colder he requested "something other than
cold sandwiches"
But there is no microwave in the work truck
So I bought another thermos not quite the same as the other kids have.
I ordered one for Shekinah awhile since the price seems to keep going up.
But ...
"Mom, it's not very hot when I eat it."

I came to realize that these thermos' aren't made to sit in a work truck in below freezing temps
for 5+ hours. So I made a thermos jacket!
I was quite pleased with the results....no not the looks
but it works!
Took some thinsulate, covered it with some waterproof fabrice (that whole bolt I bought a few months ago) stitched on some velcro and viola!
The other thing that helps keep this boy warm...besides the seven layers of clothes...
is something we call a neck ruff...?? 
It's a piece of fleece that is tighter than an infinity scarf, but looser than a turtleneck
Stitched it together real quick one morning and it is right up there with the credit card
"never leave home with out it"


 My friend gave me "wall words" and I finally got up the nerve to
read the directions and put them on my wall
Zeke: "you just couldn't stand and empty wall?"

Then...on to feeding these hungry people
40 pounds of sour cherries will start us off
The local orchard is selling frozen fruit this winter
along with a bunch of other close-to-date items.
It is sales like these that help the bank account.

And someone reminded me tonite that next week they will be half way to 30
Actually it was I that reminded him he is not only getting close to 16, but 
30 as well and that.....is a third of the way to 90.




Sunday, February 15, 2015

Looking For Good

Last Sunday, I stayed home from church, with a friend's foster baby (he's supposed to stay out of crowds for a few months)
I listened in on our church service, while the sermon was on Barnabas and being and encourager, something the minister said struck me.
He mentioned how we are so programmed to think negatively of any given situation. Lyndon Johnson pointed out, "If one morning I walked on top of the water across the Potomac River, the headline that afternoon would read : 'President Can't Swim'."
We read the weather forecast and cynically snort "yeah, we'll see." Do I give credit when the forecasters are actually right?"
In the international adoption world we first meet our child the day before adoption, parents are advised "prepare for the worst, and hope for the best."

It's way late for New Year's resolutions, but I thinkit would be a good idea to look for the positive in all the interactions with my children. A child makes themselves annoying by standing in my way...he/she is just needing some closeness with me and not actually trying to be annoying.

Then another child leaves yet ANOTHER load of laundry sitting in the washer, I am sure he/she is just so busy doing math or history homework that they really didn't have time to do their chores.

You get the idea ( I know those pronouns are off but they read my blog!)

This past week has been interesting, on Tuesday I took Parker and Shekinah along to do some banking and a stop at the post office. When I was getting Parker out of his seat I noticed a catch while I was closing the roll door on the van. I opened it and tried again and THE BACK PART OF THE DOOR FELL DOWN!  Thankfully I had already taken Parker out of his seat and the bottom roller stayed in its slot. Otherwise the door would have fallen on my toes or worse. The door was too heavy for me to put back in it's place. My dear hubby was able to put it back into place when he came home that evening. Needless to say everyone has had  instructions on how to PROPERLY open the van door and the replacement part is in the mail.

In other news: Shekinah is rising to the challenge of getting ready for Kindergarten. A number of times in the past few weeks I asked her to do something and she was reluctant. All I needed to say was, "well, you should learn that before yougot to school, but if you want to stay home another year, that's OK too."
We suddenly know how to open the van door from the inside (not the one that fell off), draw the letter "K", and recognize a bunch of numbers. Tying shoes and getting the letters of her name in the correct order are next on the list.


Then the big boys had a youth group function. It was labeled "color night"
The colors selected were pink and brown
If your birthday fell in the last half of the year, you got to wear pink
Guess which half of the year these boys were born.






This dapper young man left the house in his father's wedding suit coat
(he doesn't fit into the pants)
carrying his great-grandfather's cane and wearing great-grandpa's glasses.
Old-fashioned night with a different youth group

If these pictures should suddenly leave my blog, it would probably be because
 my children read my blog

Saturday, January 31, 2015

Faking It

Warning! This post is full of OPINIONS....opinions that are probably a bit unpopular but, here goes--

The other weeks one of my enthusiastic basketball players came home from a game.

"Boy! you should have seen ______he sure faked it. The other guy barely touched him and down he went!"

Clueless mom: "Why?"

" Well we got two free foul shots"

"Wait! You mean you fall over on the floor and pretend someone hit you so you can get free shots?"

(OK OK, until a week ago I didn't know they use  A WHOLE BUNCH of new footballs PER GAME!)

I was assured that it is perfectly legal and is considered  good strategy. I even checked with my older kids and "yes, mom, that is true".

So what's the big deal?

So tell me? If I put my hand on my son's shoulder and he flinches and moves away or even says "OW!"
What would you think if you were watching?

We try to teach our children to always speak the truth and "even a 'half-truth' is a 'half-lie' "...well you know where I'm going with this.

So when is "faking it" OK?


On to other things. This is the 20-shades-of-gray-and-brown quilt that I made in the beginning of January. It was really called "Forest in a Foggy Snow"

This one was an order and I sent it off yesterday. 
"Wedding Rings"
Definitely not my choice of color but I love the design...
maybe I can do something with the idea another day.

Then my "boss" gave me this stack of silks, velvets and other shiny fabrics and asked
if I can make a Crazy Quilt. It has so many personal angles for the customer that I might
have to do something I never did before....refuse an order.
There are just too many ways that I could make the wrong thing PLUS I will probably
fall in love with it and want to keep it.


Sunday, January 25, 2015

Potluck Review

Every so often our church has a fellowship meal after the church service. Often the food committee plans a menu so that each family has only to bring "four dozen rolls" or "4# of ham balls" (just an example). But occasionally we have "pot luck" which means "bring a hot and cold dish"  or depends on the translation "bring the best, fattening food you can possibly think up".  I ,unlike some of my family, love tasting different kinds of food.
  By the way, who brought that black crock pot full of baked beans? I need the recipe.

Since people were asking about my food I thought I'd post it...it's not the fanciest or the fattening-est but it is Chinese food for the crock pot.

My daughter-in-law told me about this site and I tried the Mongolian Beef the other night-used ground beef instead.

Here is the recipe with the tweaks I made:

Slow Cooker Mongolian Beef

1 pound ground beef, (you can fry it before you put it in the crock pot, I simply thawed it when I had 6 hours to cook it. Fried it for church pot luck)

1/4 cup cornstarch
2 tablespoons olive oil
1/2 teaspoon minced ginger
1 tsp minced garlic
3/4 cup soy sauce (I think it made it a bit strong ...start with 1/2 cup)
3/4 cup water
3/4 cup brown sugar

Fry or thaw your ground meat, put in crock pot.  Mix the remaining ingredients, be sure to wisk in the corn starch. Pour in the crock pot. Cook on high 2-3 hours or low 4-5 hours.  The "gravy" was a bit thick so I added water as the day went along. (This morning I added 4 cups of water  to my tripled recipe at 10 AM)  In our experience you can never have too much gravy.

Serve with rice

I made rice for pot luck too...searched the internet for recipes and those recipes had 2 cups water to 1 cup rice.....that makes mush when you are making jasmine rice.

I simply measured my washed rice* into the crock pot with my normal measurement of
 1 cup rice to 1-1/4 cup water and added a bit of salt.

I made 5 cups of rice to 6-1/4 cup water.... should've made more

Should've sprayed the crock with cooking spray too

cooked on high until for 2-1/2 hrs and then back to low (10 AM)until lunch was ready. It was plenty soft, but better than trying to make rice between end of church and "time to eat".

* You don't wash your rice? I don't always wash mine, but good Chinese mamas do. Supposedly takes off some of the starch and any impurities that might be on the rice. I only buy  jasmine rice anymore...well except for that one time I almost killed my family by buying regular Carolina rice....but let's not talk about that. Wa*mart sells it (bottom shelf below the Chinese flavorings or up a few rows under the Mexican food supplies) It's a bit more expensive but it's worth it.S*ms Club and your local Chinese food store carry the 25# bags. Put the amount of rice that you are making in a bowl, add water to cover by an inch or so....slosh the rice back and forth with your hands until the water is milky, pour off the water and do it again.  That my friends is "washed rice".



QOTD: The other Saturday I bought chicken pies for supper when DH got to the bottom of his he said "Uh Oh I shouldn't have eaten this....it's for singles only.



Thursday, January 8, 2015

Formerly a Shirt

                     When I dig through the bins at Goodwill and come across a nice shirt with good quality fabric, I don't care what size it is. If it fits one of the skinny people in my house....OK
But if it is size XXL then my mind goes to other sewing projects.    This fish shirt has been on my stash pile for quite some time and I got a sudden urge to see if I could make a jumper.
     The bodice comes from the sleeves, the skirt is the main part of the shirt...from the yoke down. 
Leave the shirt tail intact. I added some denim to the bottom of this one to lengthen it.
                                                                       
My photographer didn't quite follow my instructions. I wanted a good picture of the hem line...
            Then there was a shirt that Joe didn't wear very often....works great for Shekinah

Not sure what was up with the eyes.